Monday, October 17, 2011

Question 16 What If

Question 16 - Something you always think "what if" about

"What if Greg and I had met earlier, when I was in college?" I truly believe that Greg is the man I am meant to be with. Soulmate sounds hokey, but you know... yeah.... what I know is that I've never been happier and it's because of Greg.

But what if.... wouldn't life have been that much sweeter for that many more years if we knew each other in college or highschool?

But... what if... just doesn't work, because I know that my personality was different back then. I wasn't mature. I was young and naive (and Greg thinks I'm naive now?)..

I meet Greg in a calm of my life and he meet me within a calm in his life. Neither of us were trampled in drama or college years or career changes or youthful inexperience.

The here and now is the perfect timing for us. The past is not a "what if" it's a "what was" and ehh to that... I have a lot of "what will be's" in the future years and THAT is a blessing!


Mommy's Paradise said...

Interesting thoughts, I also believe everybody is changing throughout the life. My Hub was the right one for me the time we met but would not have been the right one when I was in my early 20ies. I hope he stays my soulmate for a long time, until I'm old and gray, but who knows what the future brings?

Tara R. said...

I know that if my husband and I had met in high school, we would not have liked each other. It was good that we didn't meet until college. Yeah, I know he is the man I was meant to be with too.

The Belly Dancer said...

Love the post.