tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3517942552412644457.post6168755758753067564..comments2024-01-07T12:52:28.782-06:00Comments on Fleur de Aleta: VisitsAletahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05605214202876973830noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3517942552412644457.post-73446641624172011092013-04-23T07:13:36.354-05:002013-04-23T07:13:36.354-05:00I forgot to say I love the pic of you both. You lo...I forgot to say I love the pic of you both. You look a very contented mother. Lillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14597193176450931002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3517942552412644457.post-80910038213924757822013-04-23T07:11:08.265-05:002013-04-23T07:11:08.265-05:00I loved Cheryl's comment Aleta. There is no r...I loved Cheryl's comment Aleta. There is no right time but II have a friend who had a daughter at 22 and a son at 41. She said that she felt better about her second baby because they had more stability in their lives. Babies bring huge changes no matter when they come. It isn't easy so accept any offers of help and rest all you can. You will be sleep deprived not to mention anything else. it is amazing how little sleep we can survive on. You have wonderful families and I bet they are champing at the bit to spend time with that gorgeous son of yours.Lillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14597193176450931002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3517942552412644457.post-3832682308828243512013-04-13T10:28:20.171-05:002013-04-13T10:28:20.171-05:00Thankyou so much for your kind words and continuin...Thankyou so much for your kind words and continuing support on my own blog, so much appreciated.LindyLouMachttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12282788551449445133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3517942552412644457.post-73998842815094064222013-04-10T17:40:58.560-05:002013-04-10T17:40:58.560-05:00The mere thought of having a baby now exhausts me....The mere thought of having a baby now exhausts me. I'll be 40 next month. My new hubby would love to have a baby, but I can't do it. Not just because my tubes are tied but I just can't imagine that physical and emotional exhaustion at this point in my life.<br />So don't beat yourself up! And take those breaks any time you can get them! =)Cyndy Bushhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12617354883122757511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3517942552412644457.post-62322400368989604572013-04-10T09:32:19.317-05:002013-04-10T09:32:19.317-05:00I have to agree with your friends and family. Havi...I have to agree with your friends and family. Having a baby to take care of in your late 30s or in your 40s would be way too difficult for me. Of Course, I have already had a baby (way back in my 20s) so I might feel different if I didn't have my son.Glynis Jollyhttp://www.glynisj.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3517942552412644457.post-85598730582566656282013-04-09T14:41:26.323-05:002013-04-09T14:41:26.323-05:00I wonder if women would really be freaking out if ...I wonder if women would really be freaking out if they had found out they were having a baby later in life. I was 21 and 23 but that is just how our family came. Had I not of met and married young, had waited until I was in my late 30's I wouldn't of had a clue to what being a mom at 23 felt like. My mother-in-law had my husband at 40 and she always seemed as young as the other mothers, although clearly she couldn't of been. I think the right time to have a baby is the time you are happy to have a baby. <br />Maybe the 20 somethings can deal with the sleep deprivation a tad better but they don't have your wisdom or your life experience. <br /><br />I think it is nice that your cousin gave you a bit of a catch up on your sleep. How sweet she and her son are.Cperzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09062444081488414888noreply@blogger.com